Showing posts with label JET Program. Show all posts
Showing posts with label JET Program. Show all posts

Friday, December 13, 2013

friday photo | omedetou!


You see that goofy guy in the back left on the top photo? He's getting married next weekend. And a great number of the people in both these photos will be there. I'll be in Ecuador - I think en route to or in the Galapagos on the day of his wedding. And let me tell you, there's just about only one thing that could make me want to be anywhere else in the world while I'm laying my eyes on the Galapagos Islands for the first time, and that is Eric - or any of these friends - getting married. Okay, it doesn't even require a wedding. A reunion! A get-together! Any chance to see these friends, and I'd do just about anything to make it happen. But this time I'll settle for nervous, giddy excitement and anticipation for my girlfriends to send me pictures and live updates throughout the wedding. Omedetou (congratulations) to one of my very favorite people in the world and his about-to-be wife. She is one lovely, lucky woman, and I know him well enough to know that whomever he picked? He's a lucky guy, too.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

the view is everything at delaplane cellars | virginia


I held my breath when I opened the email that would tell me where in Japan I would spend the next year of my life. When I knew I'd been accepted into the Japan Exchange and Teaching Program (JET), I filled out a paper asking for my requested areas. But heavily bolded type told me in no uncertain terms that I shouldn't expect actually to be placed in those areas. I'd requested Okinawa, Tokyo, and I think Osaka, maybe, I can't even remember now. All I knew when I clicked open that email is that I wanted to be in a large city, or I wouldn't go at all. I couldn't fathom the miserable existence that living rurally would be.

I opened the email, and there it was: Yamato, Hikari City, Yamaguchi, Japan.

An extensive google search finally yielded some information: it was more rural than western Nebraska, more country than Georgia, more rice fields than people.

It took a lot of thought and friends talking some sense into me to accept the placement and go. After all my stubbornness, it took me all of 5 minutes to be hopelessly, desperately enamored of Yamato, the tiny village that was my own. I loved Yamato so fiercely that Hikari felt huge to me. I'd trundle down the mountainside in my 4-door car that was bigger than the roads, and plop out onto the main highway through Hikari, and there were people and cars and shops and restaurants and a grocery store every which way. Hikari began to feel like a city to me. Hiroshima might have been Manhattan, and don't get me started on how actively I avoided Tokyo and Osaka.

In that year in Japan, I found myself gravitating towards the small places that don't get written up in guidebooks, the ones that feel like I found them all by myself and then could share them with the people who've spent their lives there. I valued the beauty of the countryside above urban skylines. I found myself peacefully at home in the middle of absolutely nowhere.

That love of rolling hills and rice fields and stunning landscapes has stayed with me these last three years in DC. And three years! I haven't lived somewhere this long since I was a child. DC is every bit home to me as Yamato was, but whereas I lived to travel and then return to Yamato, in DC I live to thrive in this city and then get the hell out of it.

That's why Virginia wineries appeal so much to me. That Virginia land, so lush and fertile and huge and rolling and expansive - it takes me back to a place in myself that is the most content and relaxed I've ever been.

A few weeks ago, Zander and I pulled up to Delaplane Cellars in Delaplane, Virginia, and I don't think I've been as awestruck at a rural view since the first time I stepped foot in Yamato. It took me 20 minutes to make my way from the car into the winery, situated atop a hill, because I couldn't stop snapping photos. The vines nearly touched the mountains beyond them, and the air hung gray and fit the scene just right, and a picture perfect white house posed for me.

Inside, floor-to-ceiling windows covered the modern tasting room. A wrap-around tasting bar was packed; it wasn't a surprise - Delaplane has made an impressive name for itself with an impressive array of wines. Betsy, one half of the couple that owns Delaplane, greeted us warmly. She offered us a taste of a few reserve wines, on top of the tasting we did. Williams Gap is a 2010 blend that is one of the top Virginia reds I've tasted. It's meant to be aged. Of the five wines on the tasting menu, we enjoyed (and purchased) the 2012 Rose, a French style rose that's a blend of Merlot, Cabernet Franc, and Cabernet Sauvignon. I got pear, a little strawberry, and a refreshing acidity on the finish. With no residual sugar, it was right up my alley. We also loved the 2011 Cinq3 - a blend of five red varieties. We stayed to take in the view and some live music with a glass of wine each, and I soaked it every second of being somewhere rustic and enchantingly beautiful.

I live for our treks out to wine country and escapes to Shenandoah National Park and road trips to Charlottesville. I breathe in that fresh mountain air and turn to Zander and say that if we're looking to buy a house, why not right here? Because unexpectedly, the middle of nowhere has become home to me.

if you go...
boutique winery in Delaplane, Virginia
Tasting fee: $7
tip:  i first tried delaplane's wine (a viognier) at al dente; it is currently sold out --if you can find it, it's spectacular! 

Monday, July 15, 2013

am i happy?

I've been thinking about happiness lately. What makes me happy? In the past year, I've noticed that I have more leveled, even-keeled highs and lower lows. Before that, my highs were out of this world, astronomical, to the moon and back, and my lows were even-keeled, average, ordinary life. Here are the three times I've been my happiest.


Governor's Honors Program 

Growing up in suburban Georgia, I admittedly didn't have the best education in the world. But the one standout was the Governor's Honors Program. It's a six-week program that allows high schoolers to become de facto college students on the campus of Valdosta State University between their junior and senior years. The best part is that if you're accepted, you're there 100% on scholarship. For low-income students like me, it's a total game-changer.

I was nominated in Social Studies. For the first time in my life, I made friends instantly. I took classes on the psychology of serial killers, played a game re-enacting World War I, and studied how political campaigns have evolved over time. I almost didn't go that summer because I needed to serve tables and save my tips to buy a car to get me through senior year. My mom pushed me to attend. My current roommate, Matt, is a GHP friend, as is my running buddy and confidante Whitney.


Studying abroad in South Africa

The story of the first time I left the country and lived abroad is well documented on my "About" page. My best friend of many years "broke up" with me, and it left me more heartbroken than any romantic relationship. I drank the majority of a bottle of tequila and announced to my friends that I was moving to Africa. So I did. I studied in Stellenbosch, South Africa. I couldn't afford it - was working three jobs to stay in school. Somehow I got the scholarships and loans I needed and got into the program I needed to get required credits for graduation. It was my first time going somewhere completely alone. I came back spiritually and emotionally healed and physically healthier than I'd ever been.


Teaching English in Japan 

I didn't love my job (teaching English abroad is often like being a professional broken record), and I had the occasional breakdown. I battled with homesickness - like when I spent Christmas in Thailand. I got sick of Japanese food and the rigidity of the culture. But I traveled endlessly, made forever friends, and realized my passion for travel goes beyond vacations and wish lists - it's what I want to do with my life.

I almost didn't go to Japan. I was working at Ms. magazine in Los Angeles - a dream come true for me! My career was wide open - possibilities in magazines, writing, and publishing felt endless, and I thought I'd lose momentum if I moved abroad. Going is the best decision I've ever made.

So what??? 

I never noticed it before, but these three events fall exactly at big life transitions - high school, college, and post-college. Now I'm 27, and I feel like I'm at another big life transition. I want to choose whatever will recapture more of my joy and fervor for life - because I'm capable of so, so much of it. I'm happy, but I know the best version of myself, and I'm not living it right now. I don't know the answer yet, but I know that getting there, however frustrating the process might be, will be worth it, you know?

I'm happiest when I'm uncomfortable
I'm happiest when I get out of my comfort zone 
I'm happiest when I make deep, lasting friendships
I'm happiest traveling
I'm happiest when forced to rely on myself and show myself that I'm capable 

What makes you happiest? What brings you the most joy?